The invitations set the tone for a wedding shower, whether it's formal and traditional or fun and playful. They also communicate the information that attendees need for the celebration. Choosing the right words ensures that your guests know what to expect at your bridal shower. Keep in mind that it's generally considered bad etiquette to include registry information in a shower invitation. Instead, relay the pertinent information to guests when they call to accept the invitation.
Traditional Shower Invitation
If you are having a traditional, women-only bridal shower, use traditional language such as: "Please join us for a bridal shower in honor of Jane Smith." Follow your welcome with the date, time and location of the shower and the name and contact information for the hostess.
If the bridesmaids are hosting the shower, after the welcome, add the words, "Given by her bridesmaids." You may also list the names of the bridesmaids if you prefer.
Modern Shower Invitation
If you are hosting a more casual shower or one that's less traditional, use playful language on the invitation, such as "Jane's wedding is on the way; let's prepare her for her special day!" or "Jane's getting married! Join us for a wedding shower to celebrate." Follow with the date, time and location of the shower, followed by the hostess's name and contact information.
Couples Shower Invitation
If you're having a couples shower, your invitation should make it clear that both men and women are invited. Use formal language, such as "Please join us for a couples shower honoring Jane Smith and John Doe." For a more informal tone, say something like, "Before they take the plunge, join us for a couples shower for Jane Smith and John Doe." Follow with information about the date, time and location of the shower, as well as the hostess name and contact information.
Specific Shower Type
If you are planning a specific kind of shower, such as a kitchen shower, use your invitation language to make that clear. Wording such as "What's cooking? You're invited to a kitchen shower for Jane Smith." Follow with the date, time and location of the shower and the hostess's name and contact information.
If you have a special request, note it at the end of the invitation. You might say "Please bring your favorite recipe on the enclosed card for Jane."
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